Q: Why Am I still not married yet?
There is a fine line in wanting to get married and what your intention is to be married?
you will need to be clear on what it is that you are seeking so that the universe can sense this, so that these emotional energies can be picked up and sent back to you, so that your inner creative power can be used to work with you, instead of feeling that you are merely existing.
Feeling that there is no purpose other than to get married, Will that fulfill your desires?
for example if it is to be loved , do you feel love towards yourself as a person feeling worthy of it? or is it security,safety,children etc? do you feel you cant come by with your current financial situations?
It is important to verify who you are to yourself, get to know who you truly are deeply in your heart, this is the question of who you are .
Who are you truly? identity vs condition
Feeling alone is a condition that you feel you are in, if you feel lonely or alone, this is not who you are, this is not your identity,
feeling lonely is the condition of not feeling happy with your own company, not feeling that you are also your best friend, lover and companion, spiritual guide.
Is there a reason to feel like this? deep questions like these must be answered in honesty and deep heartfelt truth. Remember to know what the difference is between the Self identity and the condition.
Being honest with yourself is a start…
So what I am saying is that you need to decide, if you are seeking love, it requires you to work on setting out the task of working on who you are first and then feeling that you can love yourself first, before you seek it from another.
This is the point of where love will be drawn to you. Remember what you sow as in thoughts that you think of yourself will return to you.
Sowing seeds of love, will reap fruits of love
Sowing these seeds that you are planting within your thoughts, knowing that you are worthy and feel worthy of love, even if there is no one in your immediate circles.
All is possible with intention.
Lets say you wanted to get married for security,
Then the same qualifying questions apply, is it because you feel you need to be cared for, made to feel safe, need money? Is this security more about being together and feeling that you and the significant other will go through things together but be in balance.
Think about what your intentions are and than go within your mind and clear up why you feel that you need this security, and is this security substituted for money or for something else?
This is a hard one to consider but if you try to find the bulls eye, your aim as in your intentions need to be true to who you are.
You are not the sum of your experiences you are worthy of knowing that you are more than all of that combined and that this is also merely a path that you can choose to go through or to choose to understand.
Understanding and Wisdom is what will help you to bridge these emotional issues.